tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post1559665946298481811..comments2024-03-23T14:41:17.501+05:30Comments on home, garden and my slice of sky: fumbling with the words ....... finding my way.....sangeetahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-49345884672432308672015-12-16T12:45:14.844+05:302015-12-16T12:45:14.844+05:30I wept when reading this post. I do not know what ...I wept when reading this post. I do not know what to say.... I am too choked. SeaFooD Recipeshttp://www.gillseafood.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-387752142632015012013-04-21T13:27:15.664+05:302013-04-21T13:27:15.664+05:30Thank you Priya...Life makes us learn so much and ...Thank you Priya...Life makes us learn so much and grow up :-)sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-26127755292723846972013-04-20T02:08:01.405+05:302013-04-20T02:08:01.405+05:30Came here from Rajani's Blog!!! Read most of t...Came here from Rajani's Blog!!! Read most of the posts, Felt your love, Felt Mithi, heard your song!!! Cannot stop crying now, still crying!!! :) Such a Strong Woman Sangeetha, lots to learn from you. Glad that i met you!!! Priya Srinivasan - I Camp in My Kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08227518856811131071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-16410740742519631742012-01-29T14:56:40.439+05:302012-01-29T14:56:40.439+05:30You survived this post too Anita? Thank you and th...You survived this post too Anita? Thank you and thank God you didn't get depressed. Yes she had a little similarity to me but she had inherited most of her features from Arvind...guess she was a good mix of both of us.sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-3852736435490565302012-01-29T10:05:34.461+05:302012-01-29T10:05:34.461+05:30I realize from your Banaras picture that Mithi res...I realize from your Banaras picture that Mithi resembled you so much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-29739114447462845422012-01-29T10:04:23.173+05:302012-01-29T10:04:23.173+05:30It has been such an emotional journey so far and I...It has been such an emotional journey so far and I am glad to see that you did not stop here and there are more entries on this blog. I managed to live every single post with you. Merely reading it made me cry and shudder. You lived every moment of it. Your will to survive and your unshakable faith is mesmerizing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-91527995548523784332011-01-05T09:28:00.661+05:302011-01-05T09:28:00.661+05:30Thank you Spice ... i am good and loved your heart...Thank you Spice ... i am good and loved your heartfelt concern here . You never have to think about where to post a comment as you can communicatw with me anywhere on my blogs. <br /><br />I am in Chennai right now and , staying for two weeks here ...surrounded with many creative people so this time was not as painful as i had imagined ...actually it has been a good time .<br /><br />Thank you for reading all my posts at once , i know it is very difficult to do so as going through such thoughts makes you really disturbed at times ....my heartfelt wishes for you and your loved ones too for the coming year as well as for the life to come....sangeetahttp://healthfooddesivideshi.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-61395298493665119692011-01-02T22:47:09.589+05:302011-01-02T22:47:09.589+05:30HI Sangeeta, how r u doing. I'm not sure what ...HI Sangeeta, how r u doing. I'm not sure what to write here(never good with words).....was looking at your food blog from few days & it's silent & I know it's been one year since Mithi left, it's always difficult to think about that time but I feel it's fair enough to feel sad & express your feelings. Today I read almost all the posts from this blog since Mithi left, though she had only 9 yrs. with U but she was fortunate to have U as a mother, who is loving, understanding & strong. Just remembering her and I wasn't sure where should I comment, felt this one is the post and I feel it's O.k to wish U & Arvind A Happy New Year,I know it won't be same as it used to be for U guys but I'm sure Mithi from above also wants her parents to be happy always.<br /><br />Hugs & SmilesSpicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05780083912877289009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-91242808774645607302010-11-24T10:50:17.471+05:302010-11-24T10:50:17.471+05:30Dear Rekha...it's true that i want to gain str...Dear Rekha...it's true that i want to gain strength from the memories of my angel , let's see how much i can achieve . Thanks for all the love .... convey my hugs n kisses to your two little lovelies.sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-89553705555083299642010-11-23T11:15:32.702+05:302010-11-23T11:15:32.702+05:30Dear Sangeeta, Everytime I go through your blog I ...Dear Sangeeta, Everytime I go through your blog I get an immense overriding feeling. Mithi was a blessed child who came to you for a short period. Sangeeta, you make me realise everytime that I should not be taking for granted the love of two little daughters which i do a bit often. take care dear.. you are such a strong woman and the memory of a lovely child makes you all the more stronger..soulsearchingdayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14134397706403391346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-23211579551393156602010-11-10T23:26:59.458+05:302010-11-10T23:26:59.458+05:30Dear Jaya ...The crafty things have been really go...Dear Jaya ...The crafty things have been really good and this blog too... <br />Thank you for being here.<br />Hugs..sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-30679643149338169352010-11-10T23:17:41.969+05:302010-11-10T23:17:41.969+05:30Dear Sangeeta,
I am shocked to read this..as I was...Dear Sangeeta,<br />I am shocked to read this..as I was browsing your this blog..and it has moved me so deep, no word of wisdom from my side as you are dealing it very well..writing here and releasing all the emotions slowly..Knitting or for that matter any craft as such is a very good way of easing out..hope for the best as perhaps your daughter must have wished the same for you and all her love still remains with you.. and with that love you are never alone, trust me ..hugs and smilesJaya Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15474786799687276472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-79423317448724045802010-10-29T10:59:25.842+05:302010-10-29T10:59:25.842+05:30I am so glad to meet people like you too RS . How ...I am so glad to meet people like you too RS . How many people you find in this world who can really connect with you , even for a moment.... Thank you.sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-55628050772519658632010-10-29T10:38:19.494+05:302010-10-29T10:38:19.494+05:30I came here from IHM's blog, Sangeeta. BEgan f...I came here from IHM's blog, Sangeeta. BEgan from the last posts and going backward. This post and the honesty in your words hit me hard. And I'm glad to have met you. True that love has no boundaries and your daughter celebrates her mother day in and out, till this day, wherever she is! She must be mighty proud of you at this moment....RSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-32988017563687637832010-10-28T17:02:23.506+05:302010-10-28T17:02:23.506+05:30The love of a parent, the understanding of a compa...The love of a parent, the understanding of a companion and the grief of a mother... all so gut wrenching. You are doing the best thing by writing all this out, and looking forward to helping others too, around you. Glad to have stumbled by your blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-14725395656284553842010-10-25T14:58:57.375+05:302010-10-25T14:58:57.375+05:30First of all, I must acknowledge that Its an honou...First of all, I must acknowledge that Its an honour to us, your blogdosts, that you chose to share your grief with us.<br /><br />Yes, you are a strong woman. and even the strongest of people feel overwhelmed with emotions. I can understand your attempts to seek happiness through various activities like blogging, cooking, etc. Even the momentary distraction that you found through these activities is commendable and valuable. For craft activities, try really really small projects which can be completed in a few days or better still in a few hours so that you get the sense of acomplishment before you get distracted. I have found that you have to feel emotionally connected even with craft projects for them to give you satisfaction. I am sure you will be able to complete more projects when this happens.Amritahttp://amritablogs.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-26961599756938202882010-10-06T08:40:30.275+05:302010-10-06T08:40:30.275+05:30We can read your expressed heart and we can only f...We can read your expressed heart and we can only feel the inexpressible part of it. एक सहारा खो जाए तो दूसरा चुनना चाहिए, यह सनातन परामर्श है, यद्यपि यह कठिन होता है.Bharat Bhushanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10407764714563263985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-44391530088985852592010-09-27T11:08:43.452+05:302010-09-27T11:08:43.452+05:30I wept when reading this post. I do not know what...I wept when reading this post. I do not know what to say.... I am too choked. <br /><br />I would suggest you going through the following links where the spiritual masters' Osho and Jiddu Krishnamurti have talked about death and dying. I hope these articles would be helpful to you.<br /><br />http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Meditation/Advanced/attitude_towards_death.htm<br /><br />http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Meditation/Awareness/surgery.htm<br /><br />http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Meditation/Awareness/jkrishnamurti_sorrow_death.htm<br /><br />http://www.oshoteachings.com/category/osho-on-death-dying/dassanahttp://www.vegrecipesofindia.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-83012818083853164502010-09-27T07:40:29.326+05:302010-09-27T07:40:29.326+05:30There is nothing more reliving than the ability to...There is nothing more reliving than the ability to accept your grief and the right words to describe it. Both IHM and you have managed to do that beautifully. TJ and Mithi, will be both loved forever and at the same time make my eyes moist.<br /><br />Hugss and so sorry to read this post so late. I ahve been working on updating my Blog roll.Sakshihttp://crackedchronicles.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-88677626131670967862010-09-23T20:40:13.785+05:302010-09-23T20:40:13.785+05:30Dear Sangeeta
Your expressions have moved me again...Dear Sangeeta<br />Your expressions have moved me again and badly. I just dont know what to say now. I feel sad.I know many things when Mithi was here and what all you had done for her.<br />I think you are recovering from the shock in a nice way....Of course there is no escape from memory but again the key is distraction and you can see that in Ann's book. I havent read the book, but I can see it is helping you a lot. I dont read books any more except Geeta, which U may try to read.<br />But the main thing is you must look ahead and proceed, of course you must visit past but dont stay or live there. I may sound bit rude, but there are many things you have to do, for which God has sent you here..complete your tasks for which you are here. <br />When the past memories try to drag you back and try to hold you down, you must get out of it fast...difficult, I know, but possible...<br /><br />Take care <br />I shall write to you soon.Ushnish Ghoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09727310069092219284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-62092841107740851902010-09-23T10:44:15.058+05:302010-09-23T10:44:15.058+05:30Thanks Nirupama....i'll check out right now..Thanks Nirupama....i'll check out right now..sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-67806459662804042552010-09-23T10:40:04.806+05:302010-09-23T10:40:04.806+05:30sangita, u can read autobiography of a yogi online...sangita, u can read autobiography of a yogi online too, pl check, u will really feel that ah this is what i was thinking about, take carenirupamasundarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256089879458357230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-40652921012925775452010-09-23T10:32:35.301+05:302010-09-23T10:32:35.301+05:30Thanks Nirupama...
This special motherhood has ma...Thanks Nirupama...<br /><br />This special motherhood has made me richer in many ways and i really feel that i am the chosen one ..many times....<br /><br />I will find out this book and read it soon.sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-82274071900189905512010-09-23T10:22:17.328+05:302010-09-23T10:22:17.328+05:30sangeeta,
Your cooking blogs were of gr...sangeeta,<br /> Your cooking blogs were of gr8 interest to me and i was so deeply moved to read thro this one. You should be really proud, as God has chosen one sangita, to take care of the little angel he had proudly possessed to remain on earth for sometime, till he wanted her back. Not everymother is born with such skills to take care of such a privileged child. Pl go thro "autobiography of a yogi" by sri paramahansa yogananda and there u will see ur questions answered. take care dear, keep posting ur feelings as we sisters are there only to shoulder ur pains and not ignoring them. take care of ur hubbynirupamasundarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256089879458357230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6148759822796779114.post-20544489217885702652010-09-22T09:40:53.489+05:302010-09-22T09:40:53.489+05:30Thank you Sarita Ji ...
Yes , Arvind is a quieter ...Thank you Sarita Ji ...<br />Yes , Arvind is a quieter person but since we two are the best of friends , we talk about her and everything else , all the time . As i write this i realize how he has transformed himself from a shocked-horrified person when her condition was diagnosed to a comforting caring person now. <br />Thanks again...sangeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01091803798460651759noreply@blogger.com